I do love me a stainless steel sex toy. There is just something about that clinical cold feeling, mixed with the additional weight that can provide some seriously toe-curling sensations.

Messing around with the temperature of sex toys is definitely one of my little quirks and I can’t get enough of it. We’ve had some great fun with metal toys over the years, whether it’s in dildo form or a cute little butt plug – metal just rocks! So when UberKinky asked if I would choose a few items to review, I was on the hunt for something shiny, and I found it.

The Beaded Handle with Stick is sort of like 2 toys in one – it features a round bulbous end which seemed perfect for prostate play – and i’m always on the look out for awesome prostate massagers, and a second ‘beaded’ end which looked perfect to use as anal beads. And you know how much I love a multi-purpose toy! Plus it kind of looked like the Milking Stick and I knew how much fun that was. So I simply couldn’t wait to give it a try.

The UberKinky Beaded Handle with Stick was sent to me free of charge by UberKinky in exchange for an honest review.

First Impressions

The Beaded Handle with Stick arrived in a very nondescript little pink box. Inside you’ll find the Stick packaged in a simple clear plastic bag. As far as packaging goes it’s a bit.. meh. But at the end of the day, that’s not what is really important – it’s how it feels – although I will say that I wished it was packaged a little nicer.

The Stick measures at a total length of 10.5 inches. At one end is the single large rounded ball, which measures 4.7 inches in circumference. At the other end (or the handle), there are 5 equally spaced out smaller segments, which are around 2.2 inches in circumference. These will act as a secure handle when using the larger end, or when flipped around, these act like rigid anal beads. The Stick has a completely smooth, shiny finish. There is no metallic odour or taste. It’s a simple design yet does look fairly elegant in hand, almost like a royal sceptre or wand. Let’s hope it was going to work it’s magic one me….

In Use

When I started out using the stick, I wanted to take it nice and slow because as lovely as steel is, it’s a pretty unforgiving material – it doesn’t have the nice soft squishy flex that silicone does. So I decided to play around with the beaded end first, before I moved onto the big boy at the other end. It had been a long time since I enjoyed a little session in the shower, so I grabbed my bottle of silicone lube and took myself off to the bathroom to enjoy getting both really clean and really dirty all at the same time.

After allowing the hot, steamy water to warm me up in the more ways than one, I grabbed the Stick and applied a good slathering of lube all over the beaded end. Spreading my legs slightly, I slipped the beaded end inside – no problem. Their narrow girth meant that I barely had to do anything – I could just slowly feel each one ‘pop’ as I pushed it inside. Because of the firmness of the material, those ‘pops’ feel a lot more intense than with something made from something much softer – so even though the girth was minimal, it still had a surprising effect.

The big round handle was perfect to hold onto, even with slightly slippery fingers. Naturally, all the steaminess soon got me worked up and I took the opportunity to masturbate whilst enjoying the thrusting and popping sensations from the beads. As I was approaching orgasm, I slipped them fully inside and then quickly (but not too much!) pulled them out just as I peaked… I felt my knees buckle and I let out a small moan as I reached orgasm.

The part I was most looking forward to involved switching the stick around and working my prostate over with that big shiny ball. After towelling myself down, I tossed my Throe over the bed and lay down whilst still slightly damp. It was a bit of a giggle laying there and then dragging the steel over my skin – the Stick was now warm from the shower, and as it travelled over my still glistening skin, it gave me some serious goosebumps.

After giving myself plenty of time to recover, I lubed up again and went to tackle the other end. This required a little more patience as even though i’ve used toys with a much wider girth, the hardness does take a little extra to accommodate – but when it eventually slipped inside, the deep ‘pop’ was enough to make me cry out a vocal cue of surprise. But in a good way.

Like the milking stick, I grabbed onto the other end of the handle and pushed it deeper until I found the spot. The firm rounded tip was making maximum contact, and just by manipulating the position of the Stick, I could intensify or soften the overall sensation on my prostate. I was in it for the jackpot, so I worked at it relentlessly. The sensation was definitely far more intense than with the Milking Stick, as the end here is much larger – I had to back off a couple of times, because it all got a bit too much.

I could feel the orgasm building, so I went back, full speed and was grinding the Stick around like I was trying to churn butter. I could feel myself dripping and my whole lower body tensing up and then I was there. Everything went silent – I couldn’t even hear myself breathing as heavily was I was – all I could see was my chest rapidly rising and falling, my legs bucking and my cock twitching. It took me a few moments to get my composure. I wasn’t even sure if I had screamed or made some sort of a noise. I was just lost in the moment.

Clean-up and Maintenance

The UberKinky Beaded Handle with Stick 6.5 Inches is incredibly easy to clean. You can toss it in the dishwasher, boil it, bleach it or just wash it with warm water and soap. I can store it with all my other silicone and steel toys without any concerns. That’s really all there is too it!


Sometimes it’s the simple things that can provide the most fun and most pleasure, and this toy succeeds in every sense. It’s a beautifully simplistic design, but works extremely well because of it’s size, it’s shape and it’s material. It’s great fun to use solo, but it’s even better when you can hand it over to someone else and let them work you over with it.

My only negative critiques would be the fact the packaging is a little bit of a let down. I almost wish it came packed in like, a little case or something – a bit like how MEO shipped the Big Johnny – something that acts as both storage but also gives the toy a slightly higher level of class, and I think this toy deserves high praise. It worked extremely well for me, and I’m so happy that UberKinky gave me the chance to review it. If you like steel toys, anal beads and prostate milking, then you should definitely consider giving this a go.

Where To Buy

Funnily enough, you can get your UberKinky Beaded Handle with Stick from…. UberKinky! It’s currently on sale for £39.99 – which I think is excellent value for a versatile stainless steel toy.

UberkinkyI would like to thank Uberkinky for sending me the Beaded Handle with Stick 6.5 Inches free of charge in exchange for an honest review. This does not sway or affect my opinions or experiences with this or any other product we receive for review. Affiliate links have been used in this post.