One thing that I noticed that i’ve been a bit slack on, is covering toys that are at the lower end of the price scale. I realise not everyone can afford the higher end toys, and to be honest – there are loads of great value, good quality toys out there.

Recently, Bondara got in touch, and asked if I would review some more of their ‘own brand’ toys. After the success of the last own brand item I reviewed for them, I was only too happy to oblige. One of those items I received was a reusable masturbator. And it’s under £20 – so I think we’re already on to a winner.

First Impressions

When the item arrived, I pulled out the very plain, basic packaging – it’s a simple black box with the Bondara logo on it. Inside you’ll find the Real Feel Masturbation Cup. As I first surveyed the toy, I couldn’t help but liken it to the Fleshlight Flight. Not only is it around about the same height (perhaps a little shorter), but it has the same ‘dimpled’ case design, and the sleeve inside features the same style opening and a similar texture. The difference here, is that the texture inside the Real Feel Cup is smaller, tighter and the textured bumps go all along the internal length.

It’s light weight, and has a ‘figure-of-eight’ style case which makes it very easy to hold. At the top, there is a little sticker, also bearing the Bondara logo. When you remove this, you will find a hole in the case – this is your suction control. Leaving the hole open reduces suction, closing the hole increases suction. The sleeve is made from ‘real feel TPE’ – which actually feels quite similar to the material used in Fleshlights/Fleshjacks – however it has the function of a TENGA cup – so it seems you are getting the best of both worlds – the durability and quality of a Fleshlight, with the size and function of a TENGA cup.

In Use

It’s been a good long while since we’ve reviewed a masturbator on the blog (in fact, i’m pretty sure it’s been over 2 months) so I was extremely keen to give this a thorough testing. I teamed it up with Smooth Black Silicone Prostate Probe that Bondara sent along with the cup (review for that is coming soon). Let me just put it out there right away – I orgasmed in under 5 minutes.

The canal is pretty tight, but at no point did it feel uncomfortable. It has an insertable length of about 6.25 inches, so it should accommodate most men. The orifice is completely non-descript, although personally, I do think it kind of looks like a butt. But then again, I am a complete ass man…

So after getting myself good and aroused, I squeezed a good helping of lubricant into the canal and worked it in with my finger, feeling all the little lumps and bumps on the inside. I twitched with anticipation and slipped inside. On the first few strokes, I just left the hole open. Despite there being no suction, the tight texture of the sleeve gripped me nicely, and I easily got myself into a good rhythm.

I was ready to switch it up and apply some suction by placing my finger over the hole on the upward stroke. Immediately, there was intense suction. On the first few attempts, the suction was strong enough to start sucking the sleeve into the case – however once I soon found my preferred method.

So going back to the beginning of the review, I mentioned how I was able to orgasm in under 5 minutes. I focused my strokes towards the tip of the penis, and with every up stroke, I placed my finger over the whole, but sped up, so basically my finger was tapping the hole, creating small amounts of suction, but when focused around the sensitive tip, it was sending me into over drive. Along with the vibrations I was feeling from the prostate massager as well, it didn’t take much effort for me to blow a load, and it left me with a huge smile on my face.

Clean-up and Maintenance

Much like a Fleshlight/Fleshjack, the Real Feel cup is designed to be used multiple times. All you need to do is just remove the sleeve, and make sure you give it a thorough clean with toy cleaner and water (remember, this is TPE, so it’s porous, and can harbour bacteria) but with good care and making sure it’s completely dry before powdering and putting away, it will last you a good while.


I really liked this cup. If you’ve been considering a Fleshlight, but have been put off my the larger price tag, this is definitely a good alternative. The sleeve feels great, both in terms of texture and quality (if I close my eyes, I could easily mistake it for a Fleshlight sleeve). The case is lightweight and really comfortable to hold. And it’s under £20. An absolute bargain.

My only concern, and it is only a small one, is that the suction can be quite intense, and on some occasions, can make a slightly rude slurping sound, which in the moment can be a little off putting and/or hilarious – so if you aren’t a fan of sloppy blow-jobs, then perhaps this isn’t the one for you.

If you would like to order your own Real Feel Masturbator Cup, it is available in BLUE and WHITE and is available at Bondara now for £19.99. Buy Now!

The Bondara Real Feel Masturbator Cup was sent to me free of charge, in exchange for an honest review by Bondara. This does not sway or affect my thoughts or opinions on this or any other product I receive for review. All thoughts and experiences referred to in this review are 100% genuine and my own. Affiliate links have been used within this post. 

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